[Sex Trivia] What should a virgin do when she has sex? |Teach you how to break your virginity safely

Psychological preparation before losing virginity

For many people, the first sexual experience is an important and highly anticipated moment. However, due to a lack of sexual knowledge, many women may feel nervous, anxious, or even afraid of pain. In fact, with adequate preparation, losing virginity can not only reduce discomfort but also turn the first time into a beautiful memory.

Key psychological preparation:

• Make sure you are ready: Don't push yourself because of pressure or social expectations.
• Choose the right person: Trust and emotional connection make the experience more enjoyable.
• Set reasonable expectations: It may not be movie perfect the first time, but communication and patience are key.

How to lose virginity safely? 8 tips for virgin sex

1. Foreplay is crucial
The level of relaxation in the body during the first time directly affects the overall experience. Sufficient foreplay can help the body adapt, allowing even a virgin to accept sex more naturally.

• Gentle caressing and kissing: Start with gentle touches and gradually build up the emotions and excitement.
  
• Whisper and sweet talk: Make your partner feel safe and trusted through words.
  
• Explore sensitive areas: The ears, neck, chest and inner thighs are common sensitive spots.
  

2. Use lubricants to reduce friction
A virgin's vagina may be tighter and have lower natural moisture. Using lubricant in moderation can reduce friction and improve comfort. Recommended use:

• Water-based lubricant (safe and easy to clean)
  
• Silicone lubricant (long-lasting, suitable for long-term intimacy)
  
• Avoid using oil-based lubricants, which may cause condom breakage or affect vaginal health.
  
  

3. Condoms are a must
Always use safety precautions, even if it’s your first time! Condoms not only prevent pregnancy but also reduce the risk of infection.

• Choose a condom of the right size; too tight or too loose may affect the experience.
  
• Avoid long-lasting condoms, which may cause vaginal dryness and increase discomfort.
  
• Practice the correct wearing method first to avoid being confused.

4. Choose the most comfortable sex position
It is recommended to use a comfortable and easy-to-control position for first-time sex to reduce pressure and pain.

• Missionary: The most common first-time position, it allows for eye contact and provides a sense of security.
• Side Lying Position: A gentler way of entry, suitable for shy or nervous women.
• Cowgirl Position: Women can control the speed and depth of penetration to reduce discomfort.
• Avoid more aggressive positions such as the *Doggy Style* as this may increase the discomfort of losing virginity.

5. The entry process should be slow

• The pain when a virgin breaks her virginity, usually from too fast entry and muscle tension.
• Take deep breaths to relax your body and reduce the pain caused by muscle contractions.
• Guide your partner into the vagina slowly, making sure your vagina can adapt gradually.
• You can try exploring with your fingers first to get your vagina used to the feeling of being filled.
• If you feel pain during the process, you should stop immediately and adjust the rhythm appropriately or increase foreplay.

6. Possible situations and coping methods after losing virginity

Will losing virginity bleed?
Not all virgins bleed when they lose their virginity! Whether or not bleeding occurs depends on the elasticity and thickness of the hymen.

Possible situations:
- A small amount of blood (normal, usually caused by a slight tear in the hymen)
- No bleeding (the hymen may have ruptured naturally or become more elastic)
- Pain (may be from tension or lack of lubrication)

HOW DOES IT HANDLE?

• Have toilet paper or sanitary pads ready, just in case.
  
• Avoid over-cleaning or washing your intimate areas too vigorously.
  
• If you experience heavy bleeding or severe pain, you should consult your doctor.

7. Post-virginity care and hygiene

Keep your body clean, avoid infection, and help your body adapt to sexual life faster.
Wash your private area with warm water and avoid using harsh soaps.
Wear breathable cotton underwear to reduce friction and discomfort.
Get enough rest and fluids to allow your body to recover.

8. Emotional communication after losing virginity

After a virgin has sex, the psychological feelings may be more important than the physiological changes.
Hugs and kisses: make each other feel safe and loved.
Share your feelings honestly: If you have any discomfort or regrets, communicate them openly.
Don't put pressure on yourself: it may not be perfect the first time, but sex takes time to learn.

FAQ

1. Will it hurt the first time you have sex?
Not necessarily. Pain usually comes from tension and lack of lubrication. Sufficient foreplay and relaxation can effectively reduce discomfort.

2. Does the absence of bleeding mean that the woman is not a virgin?
Not all virgins bleed; the hymen may not easily rupture due to exercise, daily activities, or inherent elasticity. Bleeding cannot be used to determine whether someone is a virgin.

3. How long after losing your virginity can you have sex again?
It is recommended to wait for a few days for the body to adapt. If there is no obvious discomfort or pain, you can resume sexual life according to your personal situation.